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There is plenty of dubious material which suggests you can combat public
speaking fear. Much
of it includes fancy techniques such as 'visualization' or
'breathing techniques'. Well, they might work. But this ten step system is
GUARANTEED TO WORK. That's because instead of fancy tricks and techniques, this
system of dealing with public speaking fear uses your body's natural defenses
against fear.
STEP ONE Prepare well. Naturally enough, the more prepared you are the more
likely you are to feel in control, which will NATURALLY help your nervousness
reduce.
STEP TWO Practice, practice, practice. You can't do too much practice. Don't
listen to those people who say you can over-practice. Tell that to circus
artists who practice day in day out for decades, just to get their act right.
You don't hear actors and musicians complaining they had 'too much' rehearsal
time. The more your rehearse, the better.
STEP THREE Say your speech OUT LOUD. Whether you are in the car, the bath, or
going for a walk with the dog, say it out loud. Going through your talk 'in your
head' means you don't benefit from something called 'psychomotor memory' -
whereby the memory for what you need to say is partly embedded in the muscles of
your mouth.
STEP FOUR Get to the venue early. Get a feel for the room. Sit where the
audience will sit so you can see it from their perspective. Walk around the
auditorium. Practice your speech on the stage itself. The more comfortable you
are with the room, the less your nerves will be.
STEP FIVE Get some exercise. A walk, a swim, a session in the gym, it doesn't
matter what you do, as long as you get some exercise in the couple of hours
before your talk. That way you'll change the chemistry of your blood supply in
your own favour. Exercise is essential in reducing nerves. Do not skimp on this.
STEP SIX Chew some mints or sweets. While waiting to go on stage, chew
something. This will produce saliva which also helps reduce nerves. If you drink
water your saliva production will go down and your nervousness will rise. Avoid
water when presenting.
STEP SEVEN When you go up on stage, smile. No matter how false it feels to
you, the audience won't notice. Just smile. It helps produce hormones that lead
to a more relaxed feeling.
STEP EIGHT Be active on the stage. Move around, use big gestures and get as
much body movement as you can. The more you move the more relaxed you will feel.
STEP NINE Look people in the eye. Make as much eye contact as you can. The
more the better. Eye contact is essential in helping you feel good and reducing
your nerves.
STEP TEN Use feedback. Always gain feedback on your speeches. You'll soon
discover you are a lot better than you think you are, which is bound to help
boost your confidence.
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| Source:
Graham Jones is a psychologist and public speaker. He has helped over 17,000
people overcome their fear of public speaking. He runs The Presentation Business
to help you speak in public. See: The Presentation Business |
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